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by David Delaney, MA, CAR, LPC
Johnny’s (not his real name) Mom contacts me to say that he is having anxiety and school is about to begin. Can I help? He is feeling upset in anticipation of the school year and all the stress that that brings with it. He is upset allot and that is affecting the family as a whole. It’s true, if one family member is not doing well, everyone feels it. Whether we are an adult or a child, we all have to deal with the anxiety of anticipating changes that school and life brings, and honestly, some of us cope better than others.
By JIM ROBBINS
If a child at the Enrico Fermi School in Yonkers is found to have attention deficit disorder, parents can choose an unusual alternative to medication: neurofeedback, a computerized biofeedback system that some say strengthens the brain.
Linda Vergara, the school’s principal, said she decided to try the approach when doctors diagnosed the disorder in her son in 1992. ”They told me I needed to give him something to calm him down,” she said.
Ms. Vergara decided not to give her son Ritalin, the drug frequently used to treat the ailment, and instead took him to see Dr. Mary Jo Sabo, a psychologist in Suffern, N.Y., to try neurofeedback.
By David Delaney
david@optimalperformancetraining.com
Bob (I have changed his name) finds that he cannot stop himself from being on the go all day long. And then he has problems getting to bed and staying asleep. Sometimes in the middle of the night, when he cannot sleep, he will get up and read or get on the Internet, which further adds to the problem. He is overloaded and this overload is affecting his health and well-being. He came to me based on a recommendation by a client who thought that I could help him.
Scientists say that our brains are hard wired for negativity…
Shawn (not his real name), a newer client of mine, comes to me and no matter what we discuss, he is oriented toward a negative, unsuccessful point of view. It seems that he was raised this way with the idea that life would always be problematic and you could not change that fact. He even has tremendous resistance to recalling successful or positive times in his life without finding the negative side of the situation. He is depressed and anxious, and his whole orientation is toward life never changing no matter what he does. He is hard wired for negativity.
By David Delaney, M.A.
www.optimalperformancetraining.com
david@optimalperformancetraining.com
George (not his real name) is a seasoned singer/performer with many years of experience performing for audiences. However, he has always had to deal with a low self-esteem issue that, even though he is loved by the audiences her performs for, he questions his skill and this affects his performance of course. He was referred to me by a voice therapist who knew about my background in the performing arts and suspected that I might be able to help him.
If a child at the Enrico Fermi School in Yonkers is found to have attention deficit disorder, parents can choose an unusual alternative to medication: neurofeedback, a computerized biofeedback system that some say strengthens the brain.
Linda Vergara, the school’s principal, said she decided to try the approach when doctors diagnosed the disorder in her son in 1992. ”They told me I needed to give him something to calm him down,” she said.
Ms. Vergara decided not to give her son Ritalin, the drug frequently used to treat the ailment, and instead took him to see Dr. Mary Jo Sabo, a psychologist in Suffern, N.Y., to try neurofeedback.
“Whoever practices t’ai-chi, correctly and regularly, twice a day over a period of time will gain the pliability of a child, the health of a lumberjack, and the peace of mind of a sage.”
—Professor Cheng Man-Ch’ing
The ancient art of T’ai Chi uses gentle flowing movements to reduce the stress of today’s busy lifestyles, and improve health.

The graceful images of people gliding through dance-like poses as they practice t’ai chi (TIE-chee) are compelling. Simply watching them is relaxing. T’ai chi, in fact, is often described as “meditation in motion” because it promotes serenity through gentle movements — integrating mind and body.
by David Delaney
His father brings nine-year-old Harold (not his real name) to my office. Neither he nor his mother is able to get him to go to sleep at night; sometimes they find him wandering around late because he cannot sleep. He gets up repeatedly when they put him back to bed. This kind of behavior is wearing on his parents!
By: Jim Robbins
JAKE’S BIRTH WAS A LONG SHOT. Three months premature, he weighed just a pound, and his early birth took a heavy neurological toll. When he was four, he entered his parents’ room one evening, drooling and unable to speak. As they watched, horrified, one side of his body went into seizure and he lost consciousness. Jake’s seizures often happened at night, and his parents kept an overnight bag packed for trips to the hospital emergency room, where he received injections of Valium. He often had petit mal seizures during the day. He was also diagnosed with cerebral palsy, which diminished his fine and gross motor skills. His learning disabilities included attention deficit disorder and hyperactivity. He had speech problems and ground his teeth constantly. His sleep was troubled and he often woke up ten or eleven times in a night.


